A bobber and a real fucker both do sexually the same sorts of wild things. They both seemingly engage gleefully in a multitude of sex acts (sometimes with more than one partner). The real fucker is doing it almost completely for her own satisfaction. Whereas the bobber is doing it to remain centre stage, because she knows that being a bobber will both endear her, at least temporarily, to men, while certainly evoking womens disdain(the first truly honest feeling she ever perceived from women). The queue of 'suitors' and 'admirers' is perforce also very flattering.
Even I am sometimes confused. The real fucker can occasionally appear to be wilder than the bobber . The difference is that in the very great majority of cases the real fucker will take ( in effect taking men and enveloping them in her body )/ give herself to only two sorts of men. Those who she fancies (they for some obscure reason crank her juices) or those who she perceives as readily being able and desirous of fulfilling her dreams and fantasies. Of course the influence of power and money can manifest itself in many ways and change all of this rhetoric.
Whereas the bobber will do whatever, with to whomever she is ordered, or with whoever she believes she will be pleasing by letting them (maybe in fact encouraging them) use what they perceive to be her " pleasure " holes for their personal gratification. Said another way, the bobbers sexual persona is 100% submissive and the real fuckers can be, but may not necessarily be, 100 % dominant. They are opposite in this fundamental way.
They have other opposite characteristics. The real fucker is likely having mind blowing orgasms; pursuing her pleasure/power by selecting partners/situations who or which will likely satiate her sexually. The bobber is only doing this sexual stuff to please others and as such there exists a strong , strong, ( do I make myself clear) likelihood that she is non-orgasmic and hence tending to be more asexual than heterosexual, even though in graphic terminology 'bobber' seems to imply more of an outpouring of sexuality.
To figure this all out, you as the observer, must take a further step back and look at the source of the behaviour --as in the legal doctrine of mens rea --which examines not the act but the motivation, pathology, and intent behind the act itself. Believe me when I say, "you too can be very easily fooled by a woman." I have a close friend who mistakenly thinks that he has been a sexual guru and mentor to six different women, each in a long term relationship. I, in fact know that two of them are certainly bisexuals. They have trouble reaching orgasm with men, I think, because they either fit my classifications handily or they need much more sex and love combined than most men can provide. One was a bobber/real fucker and he never even suspected (interestingly, the most trifling and casual of his relationships). Another was a multi-bobber wanna-be, another merely a cold hearted gold digger, and the sixth couldn't come even if you, "stuck a dildoe up her ass, and applied a vibrator to her clitoris". The foregoing is his 'certified' way to guarantee that they all come.
What a joke! This same brilliant friend completely ignores the current research saying that 6.5 out of 10 women can't orgasm, ever! His ego can't handle that reality. Moreover, he, as most men do, has difficulty looking one step back in the evolutionary thought process to determine what is really happening, especially when the conquest of a new, or what seemed like an unattainable vagina is imminent--never mind having to consider, delineate and quantify, then chart and study the pathology, before taking definitive action. (Impossible with a hard dick?)
Men are doubly blind to this natural and logical way of proceeding, if sex is involved. They will so easily stay on track in business affairs, where their cock is not involved. Keep in mind that people generally fall prey to not questioning, especially ones behaviour, if they are having a good time. And if you happen to have a "bobber on stream", believe me you are having a good time. Well, that is the time to be more careful ,and more diligent. A failure to understand this will inevitably result in the loss of your precious bobber. One more warning. A female will almost (footnote 1) never admit to having a tendency to be a bobber, as it would expose her Achilles heel ( her mother and many other 'sisters' taught her this.). Therefore the term 'bobber' is primarily for the locker room or for the stag party.
Footnotes:
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Only multi bobbers admit to being such; they do so generally with a great deal of apprehension, and only when you corner them by asking why there are a group of men waiting, and others participating in sex acts with them.
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